Have you ever felt that your relationship with your partner is on autopilot? Both of you just coexist with each other, and that’s it. Your daily conversations may only cover topics about your routine, like groceries and kids.
When was the last time you were really in the presence of each other, with those sparks like the earlier days you met? Well, it's never too late to strengthen the bond you both built. Here's how:
- Communicate openly and honestly
When you communicate openly and honestly, it strengthens the foundation of trust, respect, and understanding that later allows you to navigate through challenges and celebrate successes together. Other than that, it helps to resolve conflicts and find solutions that work for both of you. However, please be respectful and be mindful of your words.
- Showing affection
Showing affection is surely a way to strengthen the bond with your partner. Affection can be in the form of physical touch, or verbal or non verbal affirmation. It creates connection, increases intimacy and improves your moods. Random hugs and kisses (please read the atmosphere first!), telling your partner how much you appreciate them or the simple yet meaningful 'I love you' will melt your hearts!
- Respecting each other differences
It is a fact that each individual is unique, comes from a background with their own set of beliefs, values, and experiences that shape the way they are today. Both of you should set a common ground to bond over and create positive experiences together. Sometimes, it is hard not to judge our partner, try putting yourself in their shoes and see things from their perspective. Over time, both of you will learn from each other and become better versions of yourselves.
- Plan activity on your day off
Planning an activity to spend the day off with your partner is one of the ways to strengthen the bond with your partner. From being outdoors to indoors, there are plenty of activities to choose based on both of your interests. Whether it is going on a hike, visiting local attractions, cooking a meal together or having a card game night at home, make sure to be present and engaged with your partner. Put away your phone and focus on enjoying the moment with each other.
- Be supportive
You and your partner are a team, and being a team means to support each other through both good and tough times. Be an active listener and show interest when your partner talks. Offer encouragement when they need it. Let them know you will be there. If your partner is busy with work, offer practical help with household chores and errands. When they achieve something, show them your excitement and let them know you are proud of them.
While these tips are easier to read than done, do not give up to restore and strengthen the precious bond you built with your partner. It takes time, effort and of course, cooperation from both sides for this to work. In the end, you will build a strong, lasting bond that will stand the test of time.
References:
1. https://balancethroughsimplicity.com/20-ways-to-bond-with-your-partner/